Put away the flashcards and check your negative feelings about math at the door. Don’t bother with worksheets — your child will have plenty of time to do those at school in the coming years. Right now, your goal is to introduce math concepts with as much enthusiasm and as little pressure as possible. The more you enjoy numbers, and the more you can show your child how math is a part of his everyday life, the more motivated he’ll be to learn.

Here are seven activities you can do at home to instill a love of math:

**Be positive**

Don’t let your own struggles with math influence how you introduce the world of numbers to your child. Since you were in school, our understanding of how to teach math has been completely overhauled; for example, teachers now emphasize making the connection between real world activities and math concepts. Children understand that math helps them develop good problem-solving skills. To them, learning math is actually fun.

**Use math every day**

Let your child see how important math skills are in your daily life and how frequently you use them. Ask for his help when you pay bills, measure a room for a new piece of furniture, or measure out ingredients for a recipe. Point out to him how doctors, pharmacists, builders, and astronauts all use math in their jobs. Each of these activities reinforces how useful math skills are in life.

**Broaden the boundaries of math**

Math isn’t just about numbers. It’s also about:

- Identifying shapes (“How many triangles do you see in this picture of a sailboat?”)
- Noticing patterns (“This picture shows a red circle, and then a blue circle, and then a yellow circle, and then red again. What color will come next?”)
- Making comparisons (“Is this sock bigger or smaller than that one?”)

By developing these skills early on, your child will have an easier time grasping geometry and more complex numerical concepts years from now.

**Ask questions**

Think out loud when you’re calculating sums at the supermarket, drug store, and at home. For example, if your son asks for some cookies during a playdate, you can say, “Let’s see, there are six cookies left. If I give two to you and two to your friend, how many will be left over for Dad and me?” Encourage your child to figure out the answer on his own, but urge him to think out loud. Getting the right answer is less important than working through the steps to get there.

**Let your child use a calculator**

Children love gadgets, and adding and subtracting on a calculator is an exciting way for him to learn to manipulate numbers. You’ll also introduce him to a tool he’ll soon be expected to use in school. And it will probably occupy him for longer than you think it will.

**Try out math learning software**

While not a substitute for real-world lessons, computer math programs reinforce skills being taught in the classroom. Plus, computer-savvy kids love the interactivity. Ask your child’s teacher for recommendations.

**Play math games around the house**

Play math games that reinforce skills taught in the classroom. Check out our list of fun math activities for kindergartners and fun math activities for first graders.